– It all depends on the person. I’m very good. Most of people don’t piss me
off enough but some people the second time you ask they’re mad. There’s a lot of my
contemporaries, some of these big names that we all know that
I know get super pissed, super pissed. – DRock’s been super patient. Crazy level of patience. There’s big
arguments going on outside.

“the book in stores today?” – I haven’t seen it yet.
– [India] (laughs) – Great question, India.
– [India] (laughs) – You know that I didn’t see– – [India] What about people
tweeting you and stuff. – That’s not me seeing it.
You lost. Question of the day:

“nervous is a good thing,
do you agree or disagree? “Do you ever get nervous?” – Sure I get nervous. I mean, everybody gets nervous. I get nervous not that often. Because I’m not putting myself in nervous positions anymore. I don’t have to feel nervous about hitting on a girl anymore. I don’t jump out of planes, that would make me very nervous. Trying to think of the
last time I was nervous. Maybe a heights thing, even that I’ve gotten better about. Did I see like a snake that scared me? I think I saw a snake somewhere, a big snake. I’ll tell you what makes me nervous, I don’t know if it’s nervous, when I see Xander almost falling and almost hitting his head on a rock. Is that nervous, or am I scared, what is that? – I think that moment
that you see him fall you get nervous. – A consistent nervousness. I don’t get nervous
before I speak or do TV. – You’re not always
nervous about kid stuff. – Right right. Nervous is a trait,
people should get nervous. I believe that you do not get nervous. I get a weird nervous energy before I speak or go on TV. But I’m not nervous, I’m so jazzed up that I feel like insane. So it’s like a cousin
of nervous, that moment. I feel like, if you were
a competitor you’re just going to get that feeling. Like I’m not really nervous when we’re shooting five on five. I’m thinking, I really want, I really hope that AJ is on my team because I might get nervous that I’m going to get into a fight today. If we’re on opposite teams. I don’t tend to get nervous, and I think if you’re,
this is a business show, so if you’re asking about, I think being nervous in
a business environment is a bad sign, I do. I do think that it means
you’re not prepared, it means you don’t have it yet. That it factor. I do think you have interesting energy. Nervous energy. But like flat out nervous I think is a tell you
don’t have A-list stuff. That being said, some of you may be nervous and crush it every time I have a little bit of that. I don’t want to call it
nervous because it’s not. It’s adrenaline. But I don’t think nervous is bad, I don’t think any emotion is bad. I think it’s human. Fear. Look do I think like, anger or cynicism are there things I don’t appreciate, or things that I think are a
waste of good energy, sure. But I don’t think any of them are bad. They’re just natural.
We’re all human. We all got our stuff, you know? That was it? That was the show.

Good luck with your book. Today we’ll be right in there
in London for the event. If you don’t have
your ticket, get them. Here is my question. Daily Vee is giving us big insight into how unpredictable
your day can be. How crazy it is. Do you have an pillars? Any consistent things
you do everyday? Do make sure you do everyday
to keep you on track? – The only thing that I can say that I consistently do is wake up, take my phone
and go poop. It’s truly the only 100%, I don’t know if that
means I’m balanced or whatever that means
in that weird world. It’s the only thing
that always happens. And I like it because ironically I like it. for the weirdest reason because I don’t want to poop during the middle of the day. I’m pumped that I don’t waste. And by the way I like
to poop for a long time. Like I don’t go in like I’m
not a utilitarian pooper. I’m like 15, 20 minutes. Like the phone
really get in it. You know, work. So I like I actually don’t
like pooping in public. – [India] You mean like
in a public bathroom? – At VaynerMedia. – [India] Oh yeah.
No one likes pooping here. – I mean it’s just
not fun to poop with other people there. – [India] It sucks. – That’s why I like
European airports. They have like really private stalls by comparison. Something the US could
really learn can use some more
private pooping places. – [India] I agree. – So that’s the only
thing I do consistently. I would say I work
out now every day. That kind of starts my day. So I know that
was a little weird but that’s the truth. I don’t know what
we’ve learned from that. Probably not that
much so I apologize, VN. – [India] A morning
that’s been consistent.

(blows raspberry)
– Most things. – I think that that’s now self-evident, but mostly it’s he is a
superstitious troglodyte who wants to deny that science exists. – Not true at all. – And I had Charles Darwin write the forward for one of my books. – I believe in science tremendously. – It believes in you, too. – More than I believe in it. – The thing is gravity doesn’t care whether you agree in it. It’s not just a good idea, it’s the law. – It’s just like, science
is just like the market. It is what it is. I mean, I’m super fine with science. I don’t understand it. I don’t know what it is, but I’m super cool with it. Listen, Seth. I’m super pumped you’re on the show, man. – It’s a pleasure. How can
people find you online? – They know how to find me. What I want to do is, let’s link up make sure everybody
starts reading Seth’s blog on a daily basis. It is massively, very
much knowing my audience, for the few of you that don’t do it, it will be a tremendous
addition to your world. – Please don’t send me email. Send him email, do not send me email. – Right. Because I just like
people more than Seth does. – It’s true. – It’s just true. That’s what we disagree on. I like human beings, Seth doesn’t. Seth, you get to ask
the question of the day.

– Well, she already
knows the answer, right? – Go ahead. You go. – No, that’s the thing with
psychics, they already know. Why are they asking? Next. – Yeah. I mean, look. You guys know where I sit on this one. I won’t meditate. I don’t
need to see psychics. – Whoa. It’s not okay
to put those two things in the same sentence. – Yes, it is. I’ll tell you. – No, it’s not. – Well, you don’t get to say. – I do, because one is science,
and the other one is not. – Okay. – Science is one of the coolest things that’s ever happened to mankind. – I hate science, Seth. Seth, I’m telling you
the truth about this. I mean, you know I hate disappointing you. – You don’t have to like it, but you can’t deny that it works. – I don’t deny science. – So, it’s not okay to start conflating things that are based on science– – Versus things that are not. – Correct.
– Okay. – Thank you. – So, let me ask you a question. What do you think about
emotional intelligence? Seriously, like can I tell you something? Can I tell you something
that weirds me out. – Go ahead. – Help me here, because I trust you. Why is it that often, not always, and I understand brain
tricks and all that shit, but I get weirded out when
I think of random shit like somebody I haven’t
talked to in seven years, and then the next day they call me. Or a million other things. Tell me about intuition. – That has nothing to do
with emotional intelligence. Emotional intelligence is
Daniel Goleman’s semantic take on what we need from people. The ability to look people in the eye. The ability to not eat the marshmallow. Emotional intelligence
is an important concept that people should understand. You’re talking about instinct, intuition. Okay, let’s have conversation about that. – Can’t they be cousins? – They’re not related things, no. They’re just not. – I believe you. You’re probably right. I don’t look this shit up. – Think about the people you know, who you’ve hired here, right? The ones you like the best aren’t the ones who are better at typing
than someone else. They’re the ones who have
the emotional intelligence to bring tension to bare
to cause change to happen in a way that benefits others. – 100% – That has nothing to do
with a friend calling you. – No. No question, no question. – Coincidence is super easy to explain. – Please. – We, as humans, are
story telling machines. We notice things, but we have
to make stories about them. You, yesterday, thought of
more than 300 different people. – Probably more than that. – And one of them called you. You paid attention to the coincidence, but you didn’t say, “Holy smokes, 299 people
didn’t call me today.” – That’s right. – The reason that coincidence works is as story manufacturing humans, we’re always looking for that correlation. And that’s why people buy lottery tickets. Because they think that
there’s some sort of weird cosmic numerology thing going on, because we’re wired to look
for weird coincidences, but there aren’t actually weird
coincidences in the world. We just think there are.
– It’s all science. – I didn’t say that. – That’s what you said. – No. There’s plenty of
things that aren’t science, because we make up stories
that are irrational. What I’m saying is there’s
a good reason we evolved to make up stories that are irrational, because they kept us alive. Because sometimes there’s a correlation between the stick breaking and the lion jumping out of the woods. And then when we listen
for sticks breaking, it might keep us alive, and
we’ll have grandchildren and other people will
listen for sticks breaking. Where it breaks down is
now there are no lions, but we’re still listening
for sticks breaking. We’re looking for broken windows. We’re paranoid about
certain things because– – It’s hippos and sharks. – Hippos and sharks, sure. – I love that. Look it up if you didn’t understand that. Go ahead, India.

“how many do you have and
still stay productive “the next day?” – Phillip I don’t drink that much. Though it’s funny I actually
said this the other day in a conversation about my life which was I don’t think I
would’ve ever drank alcohol, just like a lot of people
reacted to the fact that on the show the other day, or somewhere. DailyVee or whatever
I said that you know I’ve never done any drugs, I’ve never even smoked a cigarette. I don’t think I would’ve
ever drank alcohol. I didn’t have my first
beer until I was 19. And I probably drank like 20 of them. Like I used to, talk about
milking a beer at a party. Like when you were 20. My shit was like not warm,
it was like a hot spring. Like I don’t really love alcohol. I learned to love wine. I weirdly started liking
really well made mixed drinks. Like the bartender culture
of New York helped that. So like bourbon, things of that nature. But I don’t love alcohol. What was the question? How many drink? You know what actually does get me drunk? The last few times I’ve been drunk. Sake. I love sushi so much. It’s in such little portions and usually when I have
sushi, for some weird reason it’s usually a Friday or Saturday night and I’m usually with Lizzie
or very close friends so I’m more relaxed and I go. And sake gets me twisted. But besides that I don’t know. By the way, right now
I’m on a hardcore diet. I don’t know if you guys have noticed but I’ve lost a good 5 pounds
in the last three weeks. Have you noticed a little bit India? – Yeah. – Thank you. And so yeah I really have
to say that nothing really gets me excited about drinking alcohol. It’s not really something
that’s part of my culture so I’ll drink a glass of wine or two when I’m not in this hardcore diet stuff. And it’s super easy to be productive because I grew up. From 22 to 30 I was
tasting 100 wines a day. My tolerance is stunningly
through the roof because of that. So yeah that’s it. – It’s probably also
stemmed from drinks meeting,

computer I’m not sure her yes I mean you
know I can’t just give those kind of answers on the show because there are so
few answers ever in history who knows about what to do now scared you book to
the desktop I mean I think you know the team either the TV the radio what’s the
desktop like the biggest magazines and print articles in The Wall Street
Journal your time Sports Illustrated and time magazine in 1992 with a media thing
but the phone is just a proxy to the internet it’s the delivery mechanism so
really you know what you know what actually I got a much better on see this
is why I took it the desktop computer or the laptop was the black and white
television the mobile devices the color television possible delivering the
internet at the internet that is what i’m talking about the phone just happens
to be telling you we don’t do that question so what is the
next like that no no that’s what i think is a commercial real estate like well at
home is just like we will try to get the

“what are your tricks and
tips for overcoming jet lag?” – I don’t have a trick. I don’t know what’s happening. It’s called enormously lucky DNA. I think my brain can out
will a lot of things. I think when I get going, I don’t know, I’ve just got it like that. I’ve got a lot of natural energy. I showed up on some people’s podcasts over the last couple
days and a lot of people leave comments like this guy’s on drugs. So I’m super high energy. I get it, it’s so crazy, I’ve never even smoked a cigarette. You know like so it’s crazy how lucky I am with my natural adrenaline. What?
– It is crazy. It’s crazy just like being
around you, it’s real. Like that’s not just
when you’re on the show or like on DailyVee. – Right and it’s real and it’s long. It’s real, sustained, for 18 hours a day, every day, every month, every year. Yeah Mike was even saying
to me, I landed from I did the red eye, and I landed, and then we worked out yesterday and I had the best workout I’ve ever had like, my energy, he was just literally like how the fuck do you never crash? We’re super behind Matt.

“travel back in time to
meet your ancestors, “or forward to meet your future relatives?” – 100 thousand percent
go backwards and meet my ancestors. I’m also the by-product
of being unfortunate in a place where I didn’t get to know three of my four grandparents,
which is on the low end I think so that kind of stinks. I knew two great grandparents,
which was awesome, but they died very early on. Actually, my great grandmother died later. But great grandfather died when we first got here, although I was very close to, to this (mumbles). And so I would go
backwards because I’d love. The cool thing about, I meant they’re both cool, because the thing you look for, it’s all very selfish. You’re like, oh my god,
my great great great granddaughter is so similar
to me, and like does things. But for me, I don’t know,
I like the backwards. I’d like to see like my
grandfathers, to see what they’re like, see what I pulled from them. My great great great
grandfather and grandmother, I’d like see like, where
it came from for me. And so that’s what I would do. Cool. That was it?