The hashtag Instagram expert, and I just wanna ask you, how do you decide which projects to say yes to, and which ones to pass on? Because I have a shit-ton of projects and opportunities coming my way on a regular basis, and
it’s often a challenge to know how to prioritize which ones to put at the top, and which
ones to take a pass on. So, I thank you for your time, and I look forward to your answer. – Sue, I’m really pumped you asked this. A lot of entrepreneur
self, kind of, you know, one off of freelancers,
different things of that nature, I’ve got a really good answer for you and it came to me immediately, unlike the first question. I, if I were you,
hearing what I’m hearing, would continue to raise
your price on every project substantially and choose
the ones that pay you the most, if that’s what you want. I would do the ones that network you with the most networkable,
or biggest brand, or the kind of people
that you wanna be around, and so I would, here’s what I would do. When you have a supply
and demand issue at hand, you know, I mean high
class problem, right, too much coming in, it’s going well, and trying to pick which ones, it’s all about raising the stakes, whether that’s a better
networking opportunity, famous people, rich
people, connected people, nice people, whatever makes you tick, or money. So if it’s $3,000 a month
or $2,000 a project, then it needs to be five and 35 hundred, and if it’s five and 35 hundred, then it needs to be 75 hundred and 6,000. Like, raise your price. There’s a lot of you right now that are doing services
that only scale you, that are not building you a business because you’re not understanding
how to raise your prices. Let the market say no,
let the market say no, let the market say no. Let me tell you the story about
my first speaking gig ever. My first speaking gig ever,
never spoke, got a random email, at Wine Library, they’re like, we want you to speak at
this internet conference, I’m like, okay, cool, amazing, I get on the phone, guy tells
me about the conference, how much do you wanna get paid, I think I’ve told this
story on the show before. No? Oh, good. This is a good one. On the phone, how much
would you like to get paid, I’m like, oh, crap, what the
hell do you get paid to speak? I’m like, alright,
throw out something big, you know, I’m a good negotiator, you know, I’ve been buying a lot of
wine for the last ten years, I’m like, alright, $5,000. Right? Remember, like, you
guys know me as me now, like, this was literally like, it’s like you saying
$5,000, Staphon, right? You’d be pumped as shit
right now to speak for. You’ll stand here naked,
right, so, so, so, I was like $5,000. He goes, okay, I go, crap,
that was way too fast. So, I’m like, okay, now we’re
talking about logistics, I’m like, alright, I gotta
get more money out of this. I think I got crushed on this negotiation. So, I get to the end, I’m like, okay, to recap, 30 minute
talk, and it was an hour, 30 minute talk in Miami, July 17th, he goes, no, no, no, no, he goes, we need you for an hour. I’m like, oh, I go, we’ll that’s $10,000 for the speech. He goes, okay great, I go. Still too little! And I kept raising it until
the market at that point settled me in, between five and fifteen, which was unbelievable and blew my mind, and it was market, I didn’t know, and, obviously, it’s grown since then, and so, I really think that
you need to keep pushing the boundaries of money,
or upside opportunity. I would do stuff for free
if you thought it was going to lead to happiness,
paying forward to somebody you believe in, or something
down the line for you without expecting it,
remember that whole thesis. So, that’s what I would do. I would pick the ones
that you’re just pushing, you’re pushing the pricing,
you’re pushing the pricing.